The End of a life is not exactly as important as the depth of that life. The reason why we cry when we lose someone to death, is mostly because of the finality of death. Death puts life in perspective, Death gives us a better understanding of how best we are to live.

When we lose someone, our first thoughts are probably, how we wish we had spent more time with them or done more for them or created more memories with them, and these because with death, every chance fades.

Hey there,

I know it easy for me to tell you that it would be alright and you will get through this phase...

Yes, you will.. but you need to stop trying to move too fast... enjoy the journey, take one step at a time... trust the mistakes you will make and are making... Thats how you get ahead....

You will thrive but first you will stumble a couple of times...

Its okay to not know where you are at sometimes, it's okay to be at a crossroad sometimes, it's okay to question the pace of your journey, but never forget to learn even as you crawl...

The battles are your signposts pointing to your victory. Sometimes it doesn't always seem like it should be but what you should always remember is that we are stronger after every test.

The grace and beauty of a dance performance is not a function of the spotlight or the cheering crowd; it usually a function of sleepless nights, long hours of practice, indescribable pain and discomfort,Yet what we see on the outside is a Dancer who has perfected the act and the art. Pain is part of the process!

Dear Me,

I am writing this today as a reminder of where we are and what we are passing through. I woke up and realized that everything was blur and I was sinking but in this state I am reminded that Pain demands to be felt.

“Whatever my lot, grace has taught me to say, it is well in the deepest confines of my soul” see that will always be our confession despite the odds. *smiles* It has been a tough year this, but when you look back at it, you will realize that it will make for a good story, the scars, the turns and the lows.

What would happen if you would get out of your way? What would happen if you dare to just stop feeling sorry for yourself? What would happen if you stopped judging yourself? What would happen if you dared to live? Here is the answer, A LOT WILL CHANGE!!!

There is a difference between self appraisal and self pity, there is a very big margin between taking control of your life and making comparison with the many characters you have made up in your head. Sometimes you are the reason for your sadness, you are the reason why you cannot get ahead and you are most likely the reason why everybody thinks of you the way they do.

I have been gleaning and pondering over a few life lessons for a while now and I may share a few. Life teaches us. This is basically the most constant of all truths, sometimes we are patient enough to learn and some other time, we are just too much in a hurry to learn so we get burnt.

Religion I have come to know is an escape rout from reality, religious people are too afraid to talk about the most glaring things, like death, like failure, like depression and anxiety, they would rather wave it away with “it is well or God knows best” than seek clarity.

I use to wonder why majority of us look forward to the end of a movie when the credits begin to roll. We look out for the name of our favorite character and sometimes we go further to search other movies he/she has featured in just so we can watch them to validate his/her “awesomeness”. To some the credit is almost the most anticipated part, you get to just see the many people who worked together to make the movie a masterpiece.